About

What does “virginity” mean? Does it even exist? What’s it like to identify as a virgin, while combatting our cultural prizing of purity? What does it feel like to be seen as a virgin, when you don’t personally identify that way? Or to identify as a virgin when you’ve been sexually active? What’s it like to juggle the “virgin” label with other labels — like “queer,” “disabled,” or “survivor”? How can a social construct have such a powerful impact? What does it mean to be a “virgin” and a “feminist,” when you take issue with one or both of those terms?

The Virgin!Roar seeks to explore the conflicts and complexities of questions like these. It attempts to amplify the experiences of feminists and virgins, as they consider them in their own terms. It defies a cultural conversation about virginity that does not include the voices of virgins, and asks how that conversation would change if we–the virgins–could speak for ourselves.

Interested in adding your voice to the project? Check out our Topics page for some help brainstorming or head directly to the FAQ and learn how you can participate in the roar.

Note: The original content of this page has been edited in favor of the call for entries above.


12 Comments on “About”

  1. Hello! I’m here! I’m a virgin and a feminist! I’m 24 and I EXIST!!!

  2. Nightsky says:

    I’d do it, but I have no idea what I’d write. I’m a virgin, I’m a feminist, I’m sex-positive, I’m 33. That’s about it, really.

  3. Hanne says:

    This is exciting and delightful and I wish you all the success in the world. More voices from more virgins, please!

  4. This is a marvelous project, and we’d love to invite your feminist/virgin voices to contribute to a documentary we’re making on virginity (Hanne Blank is in it, brilliantly). It would be a great way to get these ideas out there.

    We’ve been collecting stories on our blog (http://bit.ly/1YnZ6W) but it’s been very difficult getting people to speak on camera. I invite anyone interested in being in the film to contact us. We’re sensitive to anonymity issues and would love to start a conversation with you.

    Please check out our blog and trailer…and send me an email at info@trixiefilms.com.

  5. Simone Jester says:

    I haven’t been a virgin since I was 19 (about a week before my 20th birthday, actually), and I had no qualms about waiting until I was that old, and given the awfulness of my first time, I’m forever getting on my soapbox to tell my still-virgin friends not to wait for marriage–that would be hypocritical of me–but to wait for someone (or someones if that’s how you roll) who’s worth being your first, because short of a strong blow to the head, you never forget your first.

    Adding this blog to my feed reader now. Write on, Virgin!Roar!

  6. [...] a blog carnival going on right now about feminism and virginity, and since I’d been planning to write a post [...]


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